Monday, September 29, 2008

My target, My Vision, My Life



This would be the car I would get if I am not going to marry in another 6 years, or else I would be getting Civic Hybrid for family trip.

I have my vision in life, which is to become a successful person in either my career and also become a great family member, a more accurate way to say this is I want to become a successful father and a leader.

I want to enjoy my life with my family and not to neglect my career on the same time. My own measurement for success is how well a person live their life to the fullest when he/she is breathing.

Being a Y generation youngster, I had realize that it is a fact that I can't handle obstacles with great persistant and courage. However with the support from YOU ALL, I am sure I can make it through. Thank you for everything.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Start becoming a smart investor today

Without even noticing, when you are working as an employee today, you had automatically become a passive investor, why did I said so, the reason is simple, you had Employees Provident Fund (EPF), and how did EPF give you 5.8% rate of return, it's because it invests, which indirectly makes you an investor.

So the topic that I would like to discuss here is are you a smart investor? As we all had realize, the inflation rate had becoming a troublesome for almost 60% of the people from any country, Malaysia is one of it. Below is the investment that EPF made to project its income:







































Types of InvestmentRM BillionPercentage
Malaysian Government Securities107.332.7%
Loans and Bonds130.439.7%
Equities73.222.3%
Money Market Instruments15.54.7%
Properties1.80.6%
Total328.2100%

Because EPF is an entity that need to act for overall benefits of its investors and it must make sure of the return is sufficient to cover the promised rate, so its investing its fund in Malaysia Government Securities (MGS) and loans and bonds. Meanwhile we all know that the equities and properties are the types of investment that can really help us project a higher income. If you are in an early of 20 to 30 years old, do you think you are not eligible to take a higher risk? which is why I would said the EPF investment strategies doesn't suit a young employee. Instead they should be searching for a higher return investment tools as they still need to work for another 20 or maybe 30 years.



Today your EPF return is 5.8%, however the government had already release the news for all EPF members to encourage them to look for a better investment tools to accumulate their retirement fund, the reason is simple as in the future they are hardly to maintain a 5.8% return rate. And we can obviously notice this through their action of allowing its members to withdraw a portion of their account 1 saving to switch to mutual fund. My forecast of the EPF rate of return would be around 3-4%, but would never be lower than Fixed Deposit (FD) interest. And since FD rate is also anticipate to decrease in the future, we can expect the EPF return rate is going to decrease as well. Remember, nothing is impossible in this dynamic era, you need to make preparation for every possible circumstances to happen any time.

The phenomena of EPF members to switch their savings to mutual funds had started since year 2002, so why bother to be the last to follow the crowd when you can be the one leading the flow? Hence what is the next move for yourself? Please do not wait until things happen then only tried to fix it, we have to always remember that prevention is always better than cure.

Source of info : www.kwsp.gov.my, KLSE Stock Review

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

有多久没在雨中掉泪

已经有多久没在雨中掉泪,男人不该轻易掉泪,应该是男人不该随便让人看到掉眼泪,那我抱着枕头哭总行了吧。ish...

How to Identify a potential share in the market

Basically in my opinion, when you start to invest, you need to anticipate there will be a lot of changes in the process before you could actually get your return. The skill you need to develop is how to maximize your profit instead of minimizing the lost. So how do we actually identify a potential share in this wide market? First of all you need to understand the company your are going to invest. Followed broker,friends or relatives recommendation blindly will just increase the risk of losing your pile of gold in the end. Second you need to understand the rules of investing, which is time and consistency, you need both to see the result of your investment. If you want to earn fast cash you will have to anticipate to lose them fair quickly as well. High risk high return, for an example, robbery, is a high risk action, if you succeed, you will end up rich, but if you fail, you will end up in jail, vice verse.

Third, the share you are going to invest is unlikely to being affected by most of the environment factor, and the products that the company are selling is unable to being replaced in your life.

So right now, when you are going to invest, I am going to give a piece of an advice to you all, invest in technology related company, but why? The reason is plain simple, just look at yourself and around you, do you demand for a better laptop, better computer, better handphone, better pendrive, better wireless service, better internet connection, better blablabla today? Technology is getting advance day by day, handphone has the significant evolution we can observe, from a bottle type to a cute 4G handphone today, from a simple communication tools to an entertainment and business tools. Ask around, who doesn't need a handphone today? But I am sure you aren't just going to find the 10 or 20% of the people just to proof to me that technology is not important in our life, LOL. On the other hand, people keep complaining on how bad is the economy, but majority is still willing to spend on technology gadgets, Nokia is still developing more and more wireless enabled handphone. Japan is still innovating it's robot, so did anything of this economy crisis affect their performance, the answer is YES, but just from the investment they made, not their main business in field. So, had you made up your mind, or did you think over such matter before invest, if it is NO, then make it YES today.

Monday, September 22, 2008

以其人之道,还至其人之身。

有恩报恩,有仇报仇。这是我的原则,你不喜欢不高兴不爽不赞同不了解不支持不接受我也不能怪你,因为你没有,所以不懂得尊重别人的原则。有讲错欢迎开骂,我奉陪。

sQuba



The future of technology, will I be able to live until the day human and robot share the world?

Source: sQuba

Risk




When you see this photo I posted, what is the first thing you had in mind?

1. Share market graph.

2. Electrocardiogram. (心电图)

It's both, why do I said so, the up up down down of the line represent the unstability and risk that often occurs in the market. But what does it has to do with electrocardiogram?I like to relate it to our life, today when you are still living the Electrocardiogram would also end up showing up down up down, unless when you are dead, the line would be linear. So today when you invest, please don't ask for "guarantee return". There's no such thing as guarantee return under any circumstances. Accept the rules of the investing as you accept the shape of the line shown in electrocardiogram.

10% of the people create income for 90% of the people today, so if you want to become the 10%, don't join the 90%. - by unknown

我挨你,or我爱你

打是爱,所以我挨你啦!ok bo? Did I pass?

Do Not Wait People to motivate you

哈哈,宁,我终于遇到一个可以和你不相上下的女人,只是她比你老一点,车比你的贵一点。昨天去Sunway Hotel出席了大东方保险工会的未来方针讲座,本来是被拉去当helper啦,最后无端端认识了一大堆imba的成功人士,连曾经在银行遇到的经理也在这里又见了面,妈的究竟是我的世界真小,还是我的圈子小?应该是后者吧。真的要感谢limpeh的上司,abo我又慢了这世界的flow一步。言归真传,这女的叫Oo Huei Ying, 不知道你有没有印象,以前好像在翔的生日party见过,还是我认错,时常都认错美女,啊哈哈哈。她说的一句话给我印象最深刻,“Do not wait people to motivate you”,或许是因为时常被你激励,所以对这句话特别sensitive。回想起来,一直以来我都太依赖你了,但却从来没想过如果有一天你不在了,我会怎样?我没想过这个问题。接下来的日子,得好好从新思考一下了,好像又有点outdate嘹。

Tough times never last but tough people do - by Robert H. Schuller

Success is not measured by what a person accomplishes, but by the opposition they have encountered, and by the courage with which they have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds. - by Charles Lindberg

Sunday, September 21, 2008

If you are fooling around with time, it will fools you back.

How do I know? I know la. You don't ask why la, I know you know why i know you know that I know you know I know. Know?

要停止槟城无线城的计划?不要sien啦。

因为电波副射过多?影响人民健康?这是笑话hor?
人会照顾身体健康的meh? 只有在发生过后吧。

人会照顾身体健康反对论:

例子1:吃panadol会不会影响身体健康

有人答不会,怎样解释?他们给的理由是如果panadol无益,医生可以关店了。哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。我请你吃蕉,要argue的去读完医书大全再回来找我,不然你没chance赢这场argue pun。我的堂姐是美国的医生,这是她把整份医学报告解释给我听的,你的reference呢?来啊。

例子2:今天电脑和手提电话也被公认用多对身体不好,又不看它绝种?今天你知道有辐射还用?什么,你没有用?环保咯你,可以的话顺便阻止别人也用please。

Sweden 的wireless city,假的? 不止Sweden,wikipedia好像有提到更多。

科技一定有利与弊,能接受利不能接受弊的请去跳海,升天成仙,就不会被辐射影响了。

就好比今天用天然气取代汽油,你说危险,因为容易爆炸,那我问你,你不用,别人用,他撞你,是不是一样爆炸?要kena还是会kena,管你多小心。今天你人体里几亿的细胞,随便一个变质,都可以让你致癌,你那么厉害避去避咯,太空最安全,真空啊,可惜你又需要氧气。烦,做仙咯,可是你又不敢,理由?你自己最清楚啦,何必要我给你bo bin.

If this kind of people appear in your life.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Dream Car

今天如果我很有钱, 我一定要买一辆:
1. 不是任何人都可以买得到的车。
2. 在任何公路上都可以通行无阻的车。
3. 后座大得可以容纳一张床的车。
我决定了,这就是我的dream car:



GG.

稳健不忘进取,进取不忘稳健, by 李嘉诚

真正了解意思的人,少之又少,但一直以为自己了解的人,满天下。

Your life mama huhu , your children life also mamahuhu

Start learning how to make decision for yourself today, as in the coming 4-5 years you might need to make decision for your children, and spouse.

I am definetely not the best but I am certainly not belongs to the normal group. So where am I actually? I am at my home, sleeping.

Friday, September 19, 2008

珍重

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超人也有弱点

Every time in the superman series, when there are enemy used kryptonite to weaken superman, in the end louis or some other fa lengzai would be there to remove it and help superman to regain his strength. 超人,也有弱点,他也是在最需要帮助时有人扶他一把,Louis也是普通人一个,但她一个简单的动作,检起kryptonite丢掉就帮超人恢复力量。同样的今天,我们也是只需要周围的人付出些许的关心,在心灵最脆弱时的一句问候,我们都能恢复元气。

Ore no tomodachi, Ogenki desuka

Teamwork

People who usually work best alone doesn't possess the skill to work with other as a team. 妈的I really bo beng pek zo mi I can't voice out my opinion if I were to team with you. You try to be creative but end up the worst creation, then comfort ourselves with “不要紧,至少我们有尝试”。Diu, that's not even a try leh mahai. I don't even know what is the thing you want to do, how I am going to commit myself? Not just me, I think majority of the group members also dunno what's your idea. Sien, I really damn hate losing, especially when the reason of losing is not caused by me. If I work alone I can finish my own creation at least 3x better than yours, and Yes Limpeh is not joking. Sien, kiang jo hor, mai keh kiang, at last ma si wa lang ka lu kiok chiu ber. Caucibai.

忧闷,内心一直想找些能够互相激励的队友,却一直都没能找到。

What ever happens, happens for a reason

Newspaper is a tool to mislead people. Truth can be read through from text so easily? Dun so tian zhen liao.

Just think like this, if everyone believe in newspaper when market down, they advice don't invest, so everyone stop so what will happen in the end? Economy get worst lo. Its same like the business game I played last time, why so many companies facing bankruptcy crisis? because they see their product can't sell, so they keep on cutting the cost, instead of spending more to increase the quality and promotion. Eventually lead to end of the company.

The actual economy flow should be, when it's down, people should help to spend more to help country recover from it, not being selfish to keep on keeping the money. Can eat hor? Like what I heard recently about how my girl friends jimat money through some ridiculous way. Taking advantage on others mean others would do the same on you. End up in a sohai cycle that damage everyone.

Today you know how many assets an insurance company have?
Use this as example:
the yearly premium collected = 100%, the claimed ammount for the year averagely = 30% means there are still 70% of the portion left. So the AIG news that being reported recently can just be taken as a case study in the future. I would care less on such matter. Reason I will mention below.

And back to the economy issue recently. The index drop below 1k right? so what does it means? Actually different ppl will have different view, thats why there are rich and poor people in contrast. Normal people would think, fuck lo drop like this, hold or sell to minimize loss bah. For those high AQ ppl, they would just throw more money to purchase the share they believe would have potential in the future, in this case, I recommend telecommunication, I already mention this type of share 2 years ago, and now recently even penang government had started to launch this wireless city program. I am really glad that my forecast was not wasted and even gained more confident towards my coming forecast.

Just think like this, the market would down forever? if yes then go buy urself a coffin, i believe you are soon going to commit suicide in 1 or 2 years.

Logical thinking please, the market up up down down for years before you are even born, so what's wrong if history repeats again. If you are prepared why bother to concern on such common event. Same applies to the AIG company incident, now down down down, means up up up in the future. If everyone really lack of confident towards a multinational company then go ahead surrender you policy and see whether it will bankrupt or not, in the end you are the one lossing the most. ROFL, people should live like how they are, help each others. Whenever you study back the history on how European countries can quickly recover from economy crisis, you would certainly find that their people are educated with all sorts of financial knowledge, thats why they clearly understand what they are doing, instead being selfish, they help each other by behaving as a wise consumer.

Please lar Malaysian, belum bangun keh? Mau tidur sampai bila? Mati? Lame.

I remember once there are this psychologist once said "when you get older, the harder you are to accept new things, because of the ego within you, make you a person who refuse to continue growing." I mahai diu 7 damn holy fuck agree with this professor theory, because all I see is a bunch of lansi lanyong young cattle. Go ahead continue think of more idea to take advantage on others, you think others won't do the same on you? BWAHAHA you are funny. Know what is 报应bo?

你还没出世的几百年前,已经有句“无风不起浪”。
逆向思考,谁不会?但有多少人会去逆向思考别人的逆向思考。

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

!@#$%^&*(()_+



This is exactly the face expression I want to make but couldn't make it when you told me you got a girlfriend and you both are going to get married soon. Anyway bless you, fucker, bila jadi Dato please remember your heng dai still eating economy rice outside everyday, if can just bungkus 10 or 20 box of abalone for me can d, I really tak tamak.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Thank you, and sorry.

Thank you my friends for creating another unforgettable memory for me, thank you for all the jokes, IMBA 配合, and new knowledge. Sorry for not being able to share with you all any new stuff, and sorry for being EMO again, having a low EQ friend is a pain in the ass right? HAHA...

Saturday, September 13, 2008

强者,不一定能生存,但适者却一定能生存。

我晕,我晕,我晕晕晕。

wa hin, wa hin, wa hin hin hin.

Ngo wan, ngo wan, ngo wan wan wan.

Aku pening, pening, ning ning ning



I ☆☆, I ☆☆, I ☆☆☆☆☆

不要再說我幼稚

女友說,想要一個音樂盒。為了看一次她燦爛的笑容,他願意做任何事。

他花了一個月的下班時間削木頭,刨光表面、彩繪、上漆,做成一個可愛的外殼,還鑲上她的名字。

但是他沒辦法手工作出那種會發出音樂的轉軸,於是他買了一個現成音樂盒,大費周章地把它拆掉,終於取下機芯,裝進自己的音樂盒裡。

送給她的那天,他非常興奮。捧著音樂盒的雙手忍不住微微顫抖。

女友只是淡淡地說了謝謝。他覺得有點失望,不過女友看起來比他更失望,於是誰都沒再多說什麼。

過了一年,女友說想分手。他不明白細心呵護的愛情為什麼不能綻開花朵。女友說他是個好人,但她對他沒有感覺。

她說年紀不小了,需要一個成熟的男人。

發生了這種事,不願接受也得接受。

他只好繼續過著日子,工作滿滿的,心裏空空的。

多年之後,他在東區的一家精品店看見她。

他在櫥窗外,她在店裡,身旁的男士低頭簽著帳單。

她比以前老了一些,不過還是很漂亮。

她們離開之後,他好奇地走進店鋪,發現裡面陳列著一個個閃亮精緻的音樂盒,售貨小姐親切地招呼著,為他介紹「頂級的瑞士Reuge音樂盒」,每個定價都在一萬元以上。

他隨意指著一個打開後有芭蕾舞者旋轉的,店員說他眼光很好:「這是限量款,定價三萬五千元」。

他問身旁的現任女友喜歡嗎,她甜甜地微笑,於是他毫不猶豫地買下了,女友非常地開心。

看著女友的笑容,他卻覺得疏離。幾年前,他多麼期待這樣的笑容。

那時他很天真,許多事物求之不得,如今他經過歷練而成熟,彷彿什麼都輕而易舉。

可是,得到的感覺卻不像當年那樣強烈。

他不再是職場菜鳥,他懂得老闆和客戶的心理,知道攻守之間的份際。

他不再是月光一族,他知道如何規劃最好的理財,獲得最高的利潤。

他不再是癡情男子,他瞭解女人想聽什麼話,更熟悉交替使用冷淡與熱情的魅力。

然而,這種成長與社會化的過程也讓他學會習慣性地隱藏想法,有時必須為了保護自己而對別人冷漠,或是忽略自己對別人的歉咎。

沒有人再說他幼稚,但他付出的代價是親密感,成熟而深沈的他,不會再被人們輕易看透,於是也很少有人能真正瞭解他。

有時候他會懷念傻傻的青春,懷念那顆容易被敲開或者敲壞的心。

年輕的女孩把玩著音樂盒,問他若有所思地想什麼?

他只能說:「等妳老一點就會懂吧。」

人們不斷鞭策自己成長,從年紀還很小的時候就想擺脫「幼稚」的評語。

但成熟是什麼?

學會依循別人的道理?還是拋棄內心的熱情?

年輕時擁有一份以為用心就會幸福的傻勁,但終究不敵各種挫折的磨蝕,每次失敗,就趕緊在心裏重繪一個更加成熟完美的自己,

調整方向,拼命地前進。

宿命般地,埋首於人際與職場無情的競爭之後,突然在某一天驚覺心態竟已蒼老,又開始緬懷天真,期望能拾回一份童心。

我常在淡水線捷運車上遇見一位玩木球的老伯。

懷舊的童玩在老先生手上呈現著微妙的衝突與諧和,他耍弄著十字形的木棒,交替地用木棒左右兩頭拍打一個棉線連繫的木球,最後還要巧妙地把球甩到木棒頂端,不偏不倚地卡在錐形突起上。

因為老伯的舉動與行色匆匆的捷運族實在太不搭調,他總是吸引所有乘客的目光。

但大家似乎都帶著幾分防備,偷偷忖度他的目的。

老伯常邀請其他乘客試玩,但許多人猜測他想兜售童玩,無意購買的人都立即搖頭拒絕。

起初我也這麼認為,但到現在已經遇過他十來次,卻從未見他兜售。

或許他真是童心未泯?把熟諳的木球童玩當成一種表演藝術,或是想挑戰行駛中的捷運帶給木球遊戲的難度?

端坐在列車上的我們,這些所謂成熟世故的人們,早已失去在眾人面前嘗試新遊戲的勇氣,我們懂得避免出糗、避免讓自己陷入無謂的麻煩,即使最後只需要拒絕一個老伯的兜售,我們還是選擇防衛。

還記得第一次出糗的時候?還記得第一次被騙的時候?

那些記憶怎麼永遠鮮明,早就已經學會不讓它發生了,卻還是習慣性地提防著?

我想著親手做音樂盒的男孩如何在愛情的戲謔中失落最初的心情,心痛為他開啟了成長的大門,但成熟的他已不是原來的他。

成長始於對原我的懷疑,繼而開展成一條無法回歸的路途。

至於純真,看似失落的故鄉,卻也可能是成熟的極致。

不在乎眾人眼光的老伯繼續拍打著木球。忙得像陀螺般的人們繼續追求財富與經驗。

一次次的愛情讓人消費著音樂盒,人們始終想不通最初的幼稚為什麼最美。

能不能跳過這個彆扭的成熟階段?

回到最初那種不知道受傷是什麼、不懂得顧慮而能坦率的時候,或是跳進最後那種,知道不管如何受傷、其實都無所謂而又能坦率的時候,任何一種似乎都比這個小心翼翼的階段好。

純真的幼稚並不需要羞愧,看透人生之後的童心更加可貴。

別再說我幼稚!

Source: 不要再說我幼稚 by 鄧惠文醫師

Thursday, September 11, 2008

知而不言,不忠;不知而言,不智。

Limpeh try过敢敢讲,对得起天地良心。你的是吹到最后,听来的,saupei啦。

你的就是不知而言,不智

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

传话

Flow of the message:

A(100% sent)---->sohai middle man( received 70%, sent 60%)---->B(40% received)

or


A(100% sent)----->B(100% received)


The first one is used by losers, the second one applied by most of the successful people.


为什么要告诉另一个人,让他传达你的讯息,when你自己可以tell他/她/它yourself?


我听过最白痴的两个传话理由:


1. 我paiseh跟他讲。(paiseh就不用讲,很easy的)


2. 我电话没有钱了。(电话有钱你打,没钱不要学人拿,你的钱是钱,别人的钱不是钱?)


要人家帮忙传话,是只有那些没有种和负不起责任的人才会做的,尤其是华人。

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

中秋节

请江南四大柴子,苏州三大霉女集合,中秋节有非法集会,地点在“月球”,时间是午时。节目有淫诗作对,强奸月兔,狂打八月十五等等变态游戏。各自准备黄金十八两,谢谢。

有不明白的打电话问我,或宁。

公平,理智,先问你自己有没有。

你要和我谈公平?好。

现在把你自己当成是神,是菩萨,你是不是应该多帮穷人,让他们中TOTO, 4D, 少帮富人?

再问问你,现在有两个信徒,A买了水果,B买了大鱼,鸡,烤猪,你照理应该帮谁?A or B

如果你说帮A, 我听你放屁,今天对你没利益的朋友你会帮?我呸,更何况A只给了你那么一丁点东西,问问你的心,你真的会帮他吗?

如果你说帮B, B是有钱人,你是神,是菩萨,不是应该帮穷人的吗?可是B给了你那么多好处,你还不帮他很不公平哩。

来吧,做出你“公平”的决定,Limpeh等着,做得出我把头砍下来给你当球踢。

Adversity Quotient (AQ)

I always believe that the greatest person is not a person who has great intelligent or rich in emotion, instead I believe is a person who is able to handle the adversity, create opportunity from it and make use of it.

When you met someone like this, become his/her ally instead of enemy.

- Everyone received a blessed gift from the higher being, which made everyone looked so special in other people eyes.  By LukSiuFung, my sohai pang yau.-

Friday, September 5, 2008

Dahsyat.

Perkara yang paling dahsyat adalah semasa anda bangun anda sedang memandu.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

考零分,又怎样?

侄女打了通电话给我,告诉我数学考了43分,不敢告诉父母。我只能安慰她,答应她会向他父亲商量,然后私底下找他老爸谈。父母亲最失败的就是当孩子有问题时,不先找你们商量。考不好就让孩子觉得是世界末日,你们身为父母的责任尽到了哪里?今天我可以很肯定的告诉你,如果你现在就要死,你不会为了因为某个鸟paper没考到100分,也不会为了没赚到个100万而后悔,遗憾,而是会为了没有曾经享受过学习的乐趣,和陪伴孩子成长后悔莫及。你真的想让你的孩子成为我说的这样吗?好心啦,考不好...不用死的。你父母的错误,造就了你,你还想重复吗?想好了就Go ahead...



“天生我才必有用,只会读书没有用,学了不用更没用,用了还错真没用。” - 宁 -


证明

究竟是相信有鬼的人要证明给不相信的人鬼的存在,还是不相信有鬼的人要证明给相信的人鬼是不存在?究竟基督教徒相信了上帝,但还在家里放神台,到底属于哪个宗教?整天拿死后的事情来讲,究竟你是想早死,还是怕死?究竟你今天拜佛是因为怕鬼,还是为了让自己心灵平静?究竟是真的有鬼,还是你心里有鬼?究竟我是太无聊,还是太好胜,才会拿你说的屁话来想?


Wednesday, September 3, 2008

多一個朋友多一條路

有位激勵大師講過「人脈就是錢脈」這樣的一句話,也曾經有某本週刊的專題探討「人脈存摺」,不斷的指出在未來人脈關係,建立的重要性,正所謂「多一個朋友多一條路、少一個朋友多一道牆」,在這個大家都想快速累積財富的年代,第一步就先從人脈建立的重要性跟大家談起。




人際關係這堂課從小到大幾乎沒人教過,在台灣保守的教育環境中每個人接收到的訊息,大部分都是把自己的事情做好就好,別人的事能少管就少管,也因此很少會
對周遭的人付出多一分的關心,到了出社會時,會猛然發現從小到大的朋友保持聯絡的沒幾個,而在工作職場上所接觸到人,下了班後也幾乎不會聯絡,這種情況如
果持續下去,想一想,就算別人有很好的發展機會或賺錢機會也不知道如何通知你,因為自己本身就很少跟外界聯絡,我並不是鼓吹大家變成八面玲瓏的虛偽人,而
是鼓勵大家多多跟不同的人保持接觸聯絡,這樣就有機會賺取所謂的「資訊財」。




資訊系統上講究所謂的「平台」,意指人們只要透過資訊系統,就可以完成很多項的工作,「平台」的概念也被廣泛的運用在各個產業上,所以各位讀者也可以開始檢視自己的「人際平台」。何為人際平台?它泛指一個環境、一個社團或一個人際網路。




舉我週遭的一位仁兄來說,每當我有任何的需求或問題請教他時,剛好不是他本身的專業可以解決的話,這位仁兄一定會給我這樣的一句話「我幫你介紹某某某,你
只要找他就可以解決你的問題」。例如當我想要買基金時,他會介紹某家基金公司的經理人給我,當我想要出國旅遊時他也介紹了旅行社老闆跟我認識,甚至當我生
病想看中醫時,他又介紹了一家中醫診所讓我看診,我當時只是好奇他怎麼會認識各種不同的人,跟他請益之後,才知道他透過一些環境、一些社團…等等,經營出
他龐大的人際網路,我問他幹麻花這麼多時間經營人際通路,他只說了一句「哪一天會用上根本不知道」,後來我更發現他運用了他本身的人際關係,讓他自己的事
業更加蓬勃發展,因為他掌握了這些人,所以也掌握了別人不知道的資訊,充分運用這些資訊,就可以轉換成經濟價值。




我這樣說各位看的或許很模糊,我舉個簡單例子來說明好了,前一陣子市面上很流行一款玩具小型夾娃娃機,有一次我到他的辦公室看到他竟然也在賣這東西,我開
玩笑的跟他說:你怎麼會賣起這東西。因為不是他的本業,他說因為他認識一個玩具的大批發商,他認為這東西有賣點,於是就跟他以相當低的價格進了一批貨,透
過他自己經營的購物網站銷售,轉手之間就有將近一倍的利潤!一般人根本不會去認識到所謂的玩具批發商這類的人,可是他卻透過這樣的關係,讓自己發了一筆小
財!我頓時愣了一下,因為之前有讀者回應說:看了我的文章之後,也想去經營第二份備胎、第二份專長,但是苦無入門之路,我從我這朋友身上看到了解答,只要
用心的去經營人際平台,很多的機會都會悄然的落到你的手上。




我再次強調並不是要各位讀者跟生意人一樣到處應酬,但是可以先從自己週遭的一些人開始用心經營起,或者藉由參加自己有興趣的一些社團等等去拓展人際關係,
不要讓自己的生活圈縮小,而要盡量的去擴大,因為你永遠都不知道你多認識了一個人之後,會帶給你多大的驚喜!掌握人脈就是掌握資訊,掌握資訊就會掌握財富!



Source: Unkown


我很丑可是我很温柔by赵传

听完这首歌后,些许有些感触
时常会听到女生用王力宏或周杰伦等等名星来和自己做比较。
我只想说,很多人都是以外表来交朋友,
自己也曾经经历过,阿忠,阿文以前也是很beh song我的样子,说是我很串,又不是很好看,很ginna款,最后我们还不是成了难兄难弟,到现在回想起还真的有点不可思议。



人们只懂得赞美美女,帅哥,却又有多少人去在意其实丑的人也是需要人家的尊重,他们和你们没两样,都是有自尊的人。今天你打扮得漂漂亮亮,我会赞美你,你却返回来shoot一句,wah你的脸做么还是那么难看。你会希望我怎么去看待你这个“朋友”?
对,我是长得不是那么出众,那你以为你自己呢?你虽然不是天上的星星,但我也会用一句赞美来点亮你的一天,你却用破坏我的一天来回报我,这样做很有趣吗?哪怕是无心,都会造成一定的伤害。



结论就是你这种人根本不懂得看别人的内在,只好从别人的外表来断定一个人的人格。也难怪你不会有知己,我已经在想像有一天你老的时候旁边只剩条狗的情景。别怪我说话狠毒,我都是在被攻击后做出该做的反应,不爽?走,我不需要你这样的“朋友”。



真不懂那些整天只会说“帅”的人究竟有没有读过书,明明就对“帅”字的历史一知半解,却又硬要扮懂,广东说:唔diulei以为自己houlanyeng。帅和英俊是两个不同的词,定义完全不一样,英俊的人并不一定是帅,回去读书啦,你的脑过期嘹。


决定

如果有一天我迷失了,我只想提醒我自己,做什么决定都好,你需要的是自己的决定,不是别人替你做的决定。自己做的决定需要负起很大的责任,得到的成果自己享受,后果也要自己承担。